Wednesday – Proverbs – Lesson 10 – Proverbs 3-1-4 – Wisdom Transforms God’s Image Bearers
June 17, 2026

Wednesday – Proverbs – Lesson 10 – Proverbs 3-1-4 – Wisdom Transforms God’s Image Bearers

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Passage: Proverbs 3:1-4
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Proverbs – Lesson 10 – Proverbs 3.1-4 – Wisdom Transforms Us

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Wisdom Equips God’s Image Bearers

Transformation

1 My son, forget not my law; but let thine heart keep my commandments: 2 For length of days, and long life, and peace, shall they add to thee. 3 Let not mercy and truth forsake thee: bind them about thy neck; write them upon the table of thine heart: 4 So shalt thou find favour and good understanding in the sight of God and man.

Transformation

Explain the following questions using the word or concept of “TRANSFORMATION”

  1. What is God’s biggest goal for your life?
  2. What is God actively doing in your life?
  3. What is the purpose and work of the Holy Spirit in your life?

 

We have assigned a subtitle to the book of Proverbs: What is that subtitle?

God’s Handbook for His Image Bearers

Consider what the Bible says about God transforming us into His image:

29 For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.

18 But we all, with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the Lord, are changed into the same image from glory to glory, even as by the Spirit of the Lord.

2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

Transformation

Each of these verses teach that God’s goal for our life is transformation. He is actively transforming us into His image and likeness.

God equips believers with the Holy Spirit, who is actively working to transform us into the image of God.

Consider how Solomon speaks to his son about transformation.

1 My son, forget not my law; but let thine heart keep my commandments:

There are two commands in this verse:

  1. Forget not my law
  2. Keep my commandments

Solomon is calling for his son to be both responsible and intentional about transformation. That is the work of wisdom it transforms us into God’s image.

He starts with a call to be intentional

What does Solomon mean by the command “forget not my law”?

The word forget means more than mental lapse. In the Bible this term refers to the practice of abandoning or rejecting instruction or laws.

When the nation of Israel forsook God’s command and started following pagan gods they were accused of forgetting God.

It never implied they had lost the memory of God, but that they had rejected God and or His law.

Application: Solomon was not telling his son to do something so he would remember his commands, rather he was telling him not to reject or abandon them.

What does this look like in the life of a person who associates as a Christian, attends church, and believes in God? – what sins might that person practice that would equal forgetting God’s commands?

Imperative #2 – let thine heart keep my commandments.
This instruction means to be active in guarding them.
If the son does not forget the law of his father, and keeps (guards) the commands he will live them out in obedience.

Application: – Solomon is challenging his son to be transformed by the commands. To be intentionally molded by them from the inside out.

The outward obedience of Wisdom is the result of inward ownership of Wisdom. What is kept hidden in the heart will be visibly lived out in life.

Reward

2 For length of days, and long life, and peace, shall they add to thee.

In this vers Solomon names three benefits that come from Wisdom.

  • Length of days
  • Long life
  • Peace

Is there a difference between length of days and long life? – yes

10 The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.

How does this verse help us understand what Solomon may be describing.

  • The Bible makes a distinction between long life and quality of life.
  • Jesus is the New Testament counterpart to Wisdom.
  • Both wisdom and Jesus are vital living a long and full life.

The third element is connected to the first two.

Solomon is building on the concept that wisdom is key to length and quality of life.
Notice the word “Peace” in verse 2.
This is not a promise to be free from enemies, threats, or problems.
The word for peace deals with inner peace, free from fear of our circumstances.

This peace is a wholeness of mind and soul. In the previous lesson we learned wisdom acts as our security detail.

This means we never fear the dangers because Wisdom has guarded us from them.

 

Application: when we put all three together, Solomon is saying, wisdom (fear of and obedience to God) leads to a long, full, peaceful life. But again this does not mean our life is free from problems, it means in the dark, sad, or scary times, our heart and mind is at peace knowing God is protecting us.

What would this look like in your life right now?

What situations are you facing that verse 2 could make all the difference?

Transformation

3 Let not mercy and truth forsake thee: bind them about thy neck; write them upon the table of thine heart:

How would Solomons son understand this?

What are the two subjects of the verse?

  • Mercy & Truth.

What did those word mean in the Hebrew?

Solomon is not saying be nice and tell the truth.
He is describing the character of God that we are being transformed into.

God’s mercy toward us comes from His character.

He is not just nice or kind, it means He is not giving us something we deserve.
In our case damnation or eternal torment.
God in mercy, treats us better than we deserve from Him.

Truth means more than tell the truth, it means to be trustworthy

Solomon is saying be as trustworthy as God.

  • People must count on us to do what we say.
  • But more than that they must count on us to be what we are supposed to be.

This is more difficult than telling the truth.

For example, we count on a doctor to be competent about his skills.
How devastating would it be to find out your doctor is not the qualified expert you believed him to be?

 

Wisdom guards us from the temptation to act in a manner that is less than God’s character.

Honest, Kind, Forgiving, Holy, Pure.

 

Your church family counts on you to be image bearers of God.

We must not let them down. We must be trustworthy with our character.

Two Steps that transform us

  • Bind them about thy neck?
What image did that depict for Solomons son?
The image Solomon is depicting is a valuable necklace that identifies the person as being honored
  • Both Joseph and Daniel were given gold chains to wear around their necks when they were promoted to high places of honor and authority.
The necklace identified something about them.

 

Solomon is saying people will see your mercy and truth; or your character and it will define who you are.

Tables of the heart:

When Solomon told his son to write them on the table of his heart, he was painting a picture of the two tables of stone the 10 commandments were written on.

To write on a table of stone was a permanent record.

The heart is the place of decision and choice.
It is where character is formed, or transformed.

 

Application: The heart is hidden. People can not see what is there until it is revealed through our words and actions.

Solomon was teaching his son to write the code of conduct on his heart as if it were set in stone.
Then, when it comes time to make choices, the heart is predetermined the action or behavior of mercy and truth.

When this happens, what is in our heart is revealed to the world and it honors us in their sight.

 

Question:

In what ways do people sometimes hide who they really are?

A person who attends the same church as you may not image God in their life.
They are not being guided by the law of God in the heart. Rather, they justify sin in many areas

Transformation

4 So shalt thou find favour and good understanding in the sight of God and man.

Solomon provides more positive results from wisdom transforming us into God’s image.

First he describes favor: this is where we get the word grace.

Second, he mentions good understanding.

Solomon is describing a person who’s character is shaped by God’s word and they are highly respected by both people and God.

Conclusion:

Solomon urges his son to be transformed from the inside out with God’s law.

This is the process of being transformed into God’s image bearers.

Consider these truths:

  • Transformation is God’s work but we are responsible for allowing it in our life
  • Transformation is intentional work that we must participate in by pursuing wisdom and taking hold of God’s wor
  • Transformation is an ongoing process that leads to evident and consistent shaping into the image of God.
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